Just those who DO think its abuse should be aware that when they think that, the best thing to suggest is individual not joint therapy. Should I never go anywhere? Yes, he needs to settle down, and no, Im not suggesting she sacrifice her career because he is stressed, but it really is BOTH their problem. You need to do this to protect your relationship, because frequent anger is corrosive and damaging. Do I refuse to go to save my marriage or go on the trip and try to keep good stance in my company? I suspect that insecurity over her being the primary breadwinner has a lot to do with it (deeply ingrained social conceptions are still a thing). I worry about things constantly. I guess I read that differently than everyone else? Hopefully the comment section will help the OP see what is going on here. Just Saying. If someone tells my son, I am a thief, or. Hey, if they didnt want me to take 2 Jacuzzi baths a day they shouldnt have put a TV in there! LW, my husband would be honestly fine with me going to Vegas. And Hunter Thompson and Oscar Acosta are dead anyway. Far from it I want to underline that couples counseling shouldnt be taken as being only for us problems, and that couples counseling can be very effective for problems that rest entirely in one persons lap. Her hotel room was amazing, and Im pretty sure it had a little museum in that hotel too. I dont let him go on trips because we dont manage each others lives like that, but I do support his career and any travel that entails even if its stressful for me. Next time, instead ofgoing ontrips together, try eating out orgoing for apicnic. But it is a common business trip destination for the reasons others have noted and certainly poses no danger to anyone with common sense. My husband wants to bring his mother on our European vacation. Is it possible that the way OPs husband expressed this question to his friends was leading? Go on your trip! Ugh. That sounds more like a problem with the type of people your employer has hired, as opposed to being a problem with Vegas. P.S., you forgot to shill The Gift of Fear.. Thank you for sharing this. Wow, that is some really scummy manipulation. Find advice, support and good company (and some stuff just for fun). She is not the nicest mother in law, either. I talked to a financial planner about my divorce before I decided to go through with it, and it turns out she and I married the same guy too! We live a block away from a grocery store. Other National Geographic Family Journeys from G Adventures include bucket-list family vacation destinations like Iceland, Japan, South Africa, Peru, Costa Rica, Morocco, and Vietnam. The memo was a few years old, and it had been issues shortly before an Uber retreat If Im not mistaken it was in Miami definitely in Florida. Rationalist who is deeply against living by social norms is a great big flashing warning sign that says DO NOT ASSOCIATE WITH THIS PERSON. Meaning they side with the wife on this one. So, hell have to ban the East Coast, too. AND that a little drinking and dancing and playing roulette (pick your game), or even a LOT of drinking and dancing and playing roulette, which is what many people do is Las Vegas, is not a particularly scandalous thing to many people. ALSO, there is nothing inherently unwholesome about prostitution OR gambling. Next, things you can do. He should not be demanding that you refuse to go on a business trip and unleashing all of this unfounded anxiety on you. Life is too short to be stifled by someone elses insecurities. Vegas! So this is a relationship question, as Allison and others have said. Life is short. I care about your son's emotional health, the emotional damage he will suffer, when this emotional abuser of an ex tells his lies about you.
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